怎样与人相处融洽?英语作文50字左右

怎样与人相处融洽?英语作文50字左右

Most of us have had an experience which reminds us the world is getting smaller.Perhaps when you went to some place far away from the city you live in and thought you knew nobody there,you were surprised to find that you ran into one of your old classmates on the street!Then both of you cried out,“What a small world!”
Why is the world getting smaller and smaller?First,modern technology has created various means of transportation.And they are more and more available.Buses,trains,planes and taxis are found in most cities of the world.They carry goods and passengers to and from every corner of the world.Second,with the development of modern society,people are in contact with one another more frequently.Everyday we must deal with a lot of people unknown to us before.The more advanced a society,the more contacts we make with others.
So we can draw the conclusion that as long as technology makes progress,the world will grow smaller and smaller.

method 1 of 4: understanding people 1 accept human nature. humans make mistakes. people aren't always nice. they say the wrong thing, they get distracted, they forget. you have to remember: all of the problems that you have in your life right now, all of your pain, they have that too. everyone is dealing with their own set of problems. this is important to remember when you're trying to get along with people who are very difficult or seem to be ignoring you; everyone is just doing the best that they can. ad 2 try to find sympathy or empathy for them. sympathy is when you understand or try to understand why someone feels the way they do. empathy is when you've been there yourself and you know how they feel. both are great feelings to have towards another person. when someone is being difficult or they're ignoring you, try to understand their feelings. understand that just because you don't share them, the feelings and experiences that they have are still valid. remember that they're doing the best that they can and that they're struggling with their own problems. think about how your problems sometimes make you meaner than you'd like or make you do things that you regret. this will make you feel better and should make your interactions with them better too. 3 put yourself in their place. think about what people do and then think about what you'd do in their position. remove as much of your personal bias as possible and remember that they might not be as emotionally developed or sensitive as you are. would you make the same choices that they did? be truthful with yourself. the answer will often be yes, so try to cut people a break. 4 respect that there are lots of valid choices. people are all very different: that's what makes life interesting. and just like people are all different and aren't just black and white cookie cutter characters, the world is also very complex. every situation is different, always. just because someone doesn't make the choice that you would make or just because they take a less efficient or smart path to get where they're going doesn't make them wrong. life isn't a test with an answer sheet: it's just something that we have to do for ourselves and we can't hold other people to our standards. 5 think about how kids act and think. when you're really having a tough time with people, think about kids. kids often say the wrong things and do the wrong things because they're still learning. the tough thing about life is that it's very complex. there's a lot to learn. some people might not have learned all their lessons yet. try to treat them with the same patience that you would treat a child, without being patronizing. we're all in the process of growing up, our entire lives. ad method 2 of 4: handling your frustrations 1 fix problems that can and should be solved. when you're having problems with people, you should start by identifying what those problems are exactly. if the problems are serious problems that need to be addressed, such as someone being a jerk or doing something dangerous, then this is something that you should call out and work to fix. you should not accept or ignore bad behavior. however, if someone is just annoying or different and that makes you uncomfortable, then it's a good idea to move on to other outlets. 2 remember that this is temporary. develop your patience to help you deal with people who piss you off. a good starting point is to remember that, as the great joseph campbell so liked to quote, "this too shall pass". everything is temporary in this world, including that annoying guy in your office. you have to learn to not let yourself get caught up in the negative feelings you have and instead push them aside so that you can focus on creating more positive feelings. try distracting yourself with work if you're struggling with this step. 3 sing a song in your head. if someone's annoying you, try singing a song in your head in order to keep yourself calm and keep your behavior appropriate. you can sing any song you like! "let it go" from disney's frozen is a good start, assuming the song hasn't already driven you insane. 4 imagine that you're somewhere else. another tactic is to pretend that you're somewhere else while you're dealing with frustrating people. pretend that everyone driving you crazy is a cat that's just meowing constantly. sometimes cats get annoying but they're usually cute later, right? you can also imagine that you're somewhere else altogether, like floating down a river in summertime. just imagine the sound of the cicadas and the bubbling of the water... 5 reward yourself later. a good way to keep your cool in tough situations if you're having to concentrate too much to distract yourself is to just promise yourself a reward for being a good sport. for example, tell yourself that if you remain polite you get an ice cream. if you help the person, even though they're driving you crazy, then you get a double scoop of the good stuff! 6 practice forgiveness. forgive people when they do make mistakes. sometimes you just have to stop and give people the benefit of the doubt. they might really be sorry or they might really not know that what they did was bad. you have to forgive them so that you can move on yourself to happier feelings. no one wants to get stuck thinking about how mad they are at someone. ad method 3 of 4: communicating well 1 keep an open mind. sometimes you have to give people the benefit of the doubt: you might think that they hate you but they might be honestly trying to be nice to you. for example, when people invite you to parties, really consider going instead of just brushing the invitation aside because you don't think they're serious. 2 thank people, even when they're making you mad. even when someone's making you mad, thank them for their effort to help or their suggestions. they usually mean well and being a jerk or ungrateful isn't going to make you feel any better. just be nice and wait until they go on their way. really, sometimes thanking someone is the fastest way to get them to shut up.